Sharing

The last few posts have stimulated a lot of discussion and open sharing of guys' problems and experiences.  I am happy about this.  It has the feel of a new development for this blog, but I suppose it is not really.   

This sort of sharing has always been there but has taken on a new character of openness and depth.  I suspect that it is very important to get hold of the simple principle, in all these discussions, and in sorting out our lives as enhanced males, that mutual jacking, manfucking and cocksucking are all morally on the same plane.  There is no need to condemn any of these sexual activities because they do not lead to the generation of offspring and the ensuing responsibilities.   

The interdiction on any sexual activity outside of marriage and not open to procreation excluded a whole field of human experience that we have to bring back, proclaim and show how good and sensible it is.  We really have to develop a veneration for the wonderful world of mansex, and declare ourselves with conviction believers in the enrichment of enhanced masculinity.   

We are also going to need to be evangelists, to get other people to accept that mansex is a wonderful and positive aspect of human experience that should be integrated into the structures and mentality of society.

Feelings.

Rus, commenting on yesterday’s post described what he feels: “I agree, but that thinking is slow in coming. As I indicated previously, I am fine until I cum and then all the guilt overwhelms me. Thus, I do not cum as much as I would like so that I do not go into that state of mind. I appreciate your comments--I value your input very much.”   I think we have all felt something similar at times.  The fact is you need to appreciate how our intellect can adopt a situation or a practice as rational and good, but our feelings take a lot of time to catch up.  The feelings are like tape-recordings that keep on playing and have to be allowed to gradually wind down, once the motive power from the intellect is switched off.  Guilt is a feeling.  Another thing to be born in mind is that guilt is not sin and does not indicate sin.  It can sometimes lead us to repentance, but, in itself, it is not repentence.  It is just a troublesome feeling within.  Our relationship to God is built in our intellect and our will, not in our feelings.

Individual Conscience.

Rus posted his quanderies and queries in the comments.  Ultimately, only he can decide what makes more sense, what tradition says, what we were taught in our upbringing, what we are saying here, what he thinks for himself.  Spiritual maturity involves trusting God who is not going to condemn you for following your own conscience.  If a guy really wants to get over the guilt and shame that was inculcated into us in our early years over things sexual he has to make a serious and concerted effort to integrate masturbation.  We have to be able to let outselves feel how good it is to both prolong the ecstasy and to shoot our load.  Once we have become convinced of the healthy goodness of masturbation we will see no problem with sharing it with other guys, by mutual masturbation, manfucking or cocksucking.

The importance of the internet.

As an enhanced male I need contact with other guys of the same mindset.  This is not so easily available in my ordinary everyday life.  I guess many are in the same position.  The internet is a real godsend and a healer in this area.  We carry the force of the wounds that have been inflicted on us down the centuries for being male orientated men.  We still hear the constant proclamation that we did not ought to exist.  We need that healing of just knowing that other guys are around with the same urges, drives and instincts as us.  We need openings too to find opportunities to fulfil those urges and feelings that we recognize as so good and humanity building

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Entrenched Attitudes.

This text of St. Paul to the Corinthians was read in church the other day.  It set me thinking that it is the type approach that we would not accept any of today.  So I am wondering why we cannot rise to similarly revising entrenched attitudes on sexuality, especially on enhanced masculinity.  Is it that there is some other form of social distortion that comes in when we start talking about sexuality.  How men and women do their hair seems innocent and irrelevant.   

But there is this thing about sexuality that you have to hide it and consider it somehow dirty.  I do not think that comes from Christianity but it seems to be deeply embedded in people.  What can one say except that some of us might need to just let go of our staunch attitudes or that some of us might need to let ourselves be overwhelmed by the beauty of mansex.  Looking at porn might help, but, even more so, savouring artistic, still, erotic male on male pics.

Here follows the text of Saint Paul.

“Any man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head,
but any woman who prays or prophesies with her head unveiled dishonors her head -- it is the same as if her head were shaven.
For if a woman will not veil herself, then she should cut off her hair; but if it is disgraceful for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her wear a veil.
For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but woman is the glory of man.
(For man was not made from woman, but woman from man.
Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.)
That is why a woman ought to have a veil on her head, because of the angels.
(Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman;
for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God.)
Judge for yourselves; is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered?
Does not nature itself teach you that for a man to wear long hair is degrading to him,
but if a woman has long hair, it is her pride? For her hair is given to her for a covering.
If any one is disposed to be contentious, we recognize no other practice, nor do the churches of God.”

Actually, the whole argument comes down to the one you often hear in church and society circles: “We’ve always done it that way.”!  Basically, that means "I want it done my way, even though I don't really know why."  Really the arguments in favour of the immorality of man on man sex are no stronger than that!